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Country : Peru, Date : 03-11-2018
Asked Question :

Asalam o Alyekum,

     my name is Stefany Luz Rimarachin Maguiña and i am from Peru i converted my religion from catholic to muslim seven years ago and one and a half year before i went to bangladesh and married a guy from that country and everything was so quick that i didnt got time for know the guy well and after problems started with that guy he treated me bad and i came back to my country. i asked here differrent scholars about my divorce or khula process because that guy dont want to give me divorce so i applied khula know its been more than a yaer i am not with him and i sent him three latters of khula with two 5three monyhs gap in each letter but he dont reply and scholers told me that u are separated from him already so in this case i need to consult your coucil please reply me as soon as possible

    waiting for your kind reply


Answer : Bismillah, If this is for a reason for which it is permissible to seek a divorce, such as disliking her husband, not being able to stay with him or disliking him because of his immoral ways and indulgence in haraam actions, etc., there is nothing wrong with you seeking divorce, but in this case you should divorce him by khula’ and return to him the mahr that he gave to you. for Khula, you must follow the Islamic processing, that you should complaint to Local Qazi, then he will issue the notice to husband and after warning Qazi will issue the Khula Certificate. (Mufti Ejaz Arshad Qasmi) Delhi, India, 9910215431
 
Country : Saudi-Arabia, Date : 04-10-2018
Asked Question :

تاریخ: 04/10/2018

 

بخدمت مخترمین: دارالافتاء

 

السَّلامُ عَلَيْكُم ورَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ

 

موضوع : تین طلاق کا مسئلہ

 

اللہ کو حاضر و ناظر جان کر لفظ بہ لفظ سوال ارسال کررہا ہوں۔

 

سوال: میرے شادی کو تقریبا 9 سال اور 3 مہینے مکمل ہونے والے ہیں ۔ 3 بچے ہیں ۔ گھریلوں جھگڑوں کی بنا پر میں نے بیوی  کو میکے جانے سے منع کیا تھا ۔ کہ مجھ سے پوچھے بغیر آپ میکے نہیں جاسکتی ہے ۔ لیکن بیوی نے مسلسل نافرمانی کرکے ایک دفعہ پھر بنا پوچھے چلی گئی جس پر میں نے بیوی کو ڈرا دھمکا کر بولا کہ اگر پھر چلی گئی تو پھر میکے بیٹھی رہو ۔ اسکے بعد ھم دونوں میں اتفاق ہوا بقول میرے بیوی کے، کہ جب تک آپ سعودی عرب سے نہیں آتے ہے تو میں تب تک میکے نہیں جاونگی۔

 

مورخہ 30/09/2018 کو میں نے بیوی کو فون کیا آپ گھر پر نہیں ہے کدھر ہے آپ ؟ بیوی نے میری بیٹی کے ذریعے جواب دیا کہ ھم میکے آئے ہیں ۔ پھر میں نے بیوی سے خود پوچھا آپ کدھر ہے تو بولی کہ ھم کوٹھا(صوابی) یعنی میکے آے ہیں اپنی بہن کی شادی پر۔ میں نے بیوی کو کہا آپ پھر مجھ سے پوچھے بغیر کیوں چلی گئی ہوں جس پر میں نے انتہائی طیش میں آکر بولا اب بیٹھی رہو ادھر اور یہ جملہ میں نے ایسے ہی بولا تھا جیسے لکھ رہا ہوں کہ آپ دل تھام کےسنو آپ مجھ پر تین دفعہ طلاقہ ہو، آپ مجھ پر تین دفعہ طلاقہ ہو، اور تیسری بار یہ جملہ کہنے میں شک ہے مجھے۔

 

اسکے تھوڑی ہی دیر بعد میرےبیوی کے موبائل سے فون آیا کہ ھم میکے نہیں گئے تھے بلکہ ساتھ ہی میرے چچا کے گھر گئے تھے جس کی تصدیق میرے چچا نے خود کی اور بیوی نے مجھ سے مذاق کرنے کیلئے میکے والی جھوٹ بولا تھا۔ جو کہ میں نے ایک شرط کے طور پر رکھا تھا۔۔

میں اکثر اوقات بیوی کو ڈرا دھمکانے اور دبانے کے چکر میں یہ کہا کرتا تھا کہ  یہ کرونگا وہ کرونگا چھوڑونگا وغیرہ وغیرہ ۔ میرے دل میں ذرا بھر بھی طلاق کا خیال نہیں آیا ہے ۔

 

اسی واقعے کے پیش نظر آپ صاحبان سے رائے اور فیصلہ لینے کیلئے التماس کرتا ہوں، کہ جس شرط کی بنا پر میں نے جو الفاظ اپنی بیوی کو بولے تھے تو کیا بیوی کو طلاق ہوئی ہے یا نہیں جوکہ بعد میں شرط غلط ثابت ہوا۔

: والسلام علیکم

 

موجودہ پتہ:

اشفاق حسین ولد وزیرمحمد

ڈسٹرکٹ فیصلیہ، شارع الملاوی، مسجد الحرم روڈ،

 مکہ المکرمہ - سعودی عرب

فون نمبر: 00966543476502

Answer : بسم اللہ الرحمن الرحیم آپ نے جو تفصیلات لکھی ہیں، ان میں آپ نے طلاق کو کسی شرط پہ معلق نہیں کیا ہے، بلکہ راست طور پر طلاق دی ہے، اس لیے کم از کم ایک طلاق رجعی تو ہر حال میں و اقع ہوگی۔آپ رجوع کرلیں اور آئندہ اس طرح کے الفاظ سے اجتناب کریں، ورنہ ہمیشہ کے لیے مزید دو طلاق کے بعد بیوی جدا ہوجائے گی۔ مفتی اعجاز ارشد قاسمی دہلی فتوی آن لائن Note: plz use instant option for fast services.
 
Country : Pakistan, Date : 01-10-2018
Asked Question :

Asalam O Alaikum
mera nikah 2008 main hua tha nikah rukhsati nhn hui thi kch arsay baad kch
aisi chez hui k manay talaq kaha 2 dafa aur rukhsati k bagair hamari
humbistri bhi hui aur kch ghalat fehmion ki waja say manay 2 dafa talaq kaha
phr main 2010 main dubai chala gya aur phr manay sb bhool kr rukhsati ly le
2014 main to mera dobara nikah karaya gya aur kaha k ab agr aik dafa dobara
kaha tu phr talaq ho jaye gi phr kch nhn ho ga ab 2 din pehly hamari larai
hui magr ye full gusay main di aur mujy oksaya gya main wife ko keh rha tha
k mujy tang na kro gusa na dilao magar wo baz na ai aur kch ghalat alfaz
kahy jis say gusay main meray moo say talaq talaq nikal gya aur ab main bhi
parayshan hon aur wo bhi aur jab talaq di tu os ka periods ka time end honay
wala tha ab ahle sunat walay kehty hain k bas ho gaye jo ahle hadees say
fatway la kr halal kr lety hain wo apnay per zulm krt hain aur ahle hadees
kehty hain k nhn hoti talaq aap bataye

Answer : Bismillah, Aap ne do Talaaq pahle de rakhi thee, ab teesri bhi dedi, to phir gunzayesh kaha bachi, Ahle Hadith samet sabhi maslak k mutabiq aap ki Talaaq complete ho chuki hai hai aur ab koi gunzayesh baqi nahi rahi. jab sab kuchh aap ko pahle se pata tha, phir aap ne aisi galti ki to khamiyaza bhi bhagatne k liye tayyar rahen. Mufti Ejaz Arshad Qasmi Delhi
 
Country : Pakistan, Date : 15-08-2018
Asked Question :

Aik baar meri biwi ne khawb dekha keh mene usay talaq de. Us ne mujhe wo khawb bataya. Kuch din baad us khawb kay bare mein mein ne biwi se baat ki. Usay yaad nahe a raha tha tu mein ne usay yaad dilanay ke lye kaha “wo wala khawab jis mein mein tumhein talaq deta hun”. Tu kya talaq ho gaye hai?

Answer : Bismillah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem khab ki halat me Talaq dene se ya phir bedari ki halat me Talaq ki baat naqal karne se bivi ko Talaq wali khab yaad dilane se Talaq waqe nahi hogi. (Mufti Ejaz Arshad Qasmi) Delhi
 
Country : India, Date : 02-01-2018
Asked Question :

I am married for more than 13 years with 3 kids (12 yr boy ,8 yr old girl and 6 year girl).I am working in Saudi Arabia and my wife is working in India . my kids used to study in India with my wife.2 years back I noticed some unacceptable behavior change in my wife which was adversely affecting our family life , after several counselling by family and me , when she didnot  change her unaccepted behavior then I called my family back to Saudi Arabia. last year in September I admitted my kids in school in Saudi Arabia and ask her to stay with me and take care of kids .she can work here if she wishes. but my wife doesnot want to stay here . she contacted Indian embassy and women cell . when I refuse them to send back to India then finally she forcefully left to India against my wish while we were in family vacation from Dubai. Now she stays in India with kids and refuse to return back to Saudi and continuing with the same unacceptable behavior. When I objected and disconnected myself from her she applied for faskh by giving false allegation( reason )for faskh ( termination of marraige)

I want to ask following things .

1. can any body apply for faskh directly before going for the process of khula ?

2. do darul qaza aligarh is empowered or has authority to take decision of faskh?

3.. can darul qaza reject her application for faskh once they know that that allegation was false and issue show cause notice and take any action for misleading and giving false information?

4. if I donot agree for faskh , then can darul qaza grant her faskh  against my wish.

5. I want to take custody of all my kids . will I get custody of all my kids ? what will happen if she refuse to give custody of kids?

6. do my case is look like Nushooz , if so please let me know please advise me how to deal with it according to Islamic law?

7.if I do 2nd marriage can it be the reason to grant khulla even if donot agree to give.? 

Answer : Bismillah Ar Rahman Ar Raheem, Sorry on late due to Technical problems, According to your queries, reply is here: 1- Yes, wife has right to apply for Faskh (not Khula) in case of Valid point and reason. 2- Yes, Darul Qaza Aligarh is run under supervision of AIMPLB, and empowered to rake decision of Faskh after completing the necessary process. 3- Yes, Darul Qaza rejects the application of Faskh in case of allegation and misleading. 4- Yes, Darul Qaza can grant the Faskh without permission of Husband in case of valid points with witness and complete proofs. 5- Yes, Husband can take the custody of all kids, when they have no need to mother. 6- Yes, your case is like Nashzah, bcs she is living alone without your permission. 7- Khula can be grant without reason with permission of husband and Faskh can be grant with reasons and complete proof without permission of husband. for more details plz contact: Mufti Ejaz Arshad Qasmi Delhi, India , Cell: 9910215431
 
Country : Italy, Date : 25-12-2016
Asked Question : agar koi husband apni biwi ko gussay mainb bolay "kuttey talaqi ki bachi YA talaq ki bachi" tu kis es se talaq waqiya hojati hai ya nahi?
Answer : Bismillah..... is tarah k alfaz se Talaaq nahi hogi....
 
Country : India, Date : 14-12-2015
Asked Question : kiya farmate he ap masla zel ke bareme ek aadmine apni biwi se kaha jhagde ke waqt mene tum ko chod Diya masla kiya hai
Answer :

Bismillah 

is se ek Talaaq rajyee waqe ho jayegi....

..........

Mufti Ejaz Arshad Qasmi

new delhi      Cel: 9910215431

 
Country : India, Date : 29-03-2015
Asked Question : Assalaamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullaahi wa Barakaatuhu ! Me and my wife has separated 5 years back. I live in dubai now and she is in india. I have pronounced divorce to her in 2011 since then she is living in live in relationship with a non muslim in Delhi. Now for money she is blaming that no divorce has been done because there is no paper work done at that time. She has issued a notice to me through her lawyer for maintenance and money and i have answered that with all relevant proofs and again declared divorce in that notice also (5 month back ). I have given my maher and 7 lak INR to her ( i have all bank transfers documents and papers ). Please let me know that by islam can we confirme this divorce and how can we proof it in Indian law also. She is creating a lot of problems and threating me and my family by false police complain. By muslim law is there a way i can proof my self and be safe from a false eligation. If she files a case or FIR , you know police will take a action without listening me and we muslims can never proof the truth of divorce and if we can it will take a long time and procedure. Please help with muslim law what way i can go through to protect myself and family. I can send you all papers and documents if required. please help with shria law and guide me. regards Ali khowaja 08126606860
Answer :

Wa alaikum assalam. As per sharia talaq pronounced is valid and enough for divorce and the same is held by the government of India as valid too. With regards to documents your submission should be enough regardless of the fact that you have documentary evidence or not or whether there was a witness or not.

With regards to the blackmail and claims of maintenance etc these are all unislamic and a proof that the lady is not god fearing. Islam is submission to Allah and His shariah. Whoever makes false claims shall be answerable to Allah on the day of Judgement.


Mufti Ejaz Arshad Qasmi

Delhi, India

 
Country : India, Date : 02-09-2013
Asked Question : Assalam u Alaikum, date-02.09.2013 Larki apne office ke kaam se 16 june 2013 ko kolkata gai aur waha per uska ghar bhi hian to wo ghar per ruki. Hamari ammi se khuch an-ban bhi hoti rahti thi tabhi larki ke mama ne July-2013 ko hamare father ko bola ki larki divorce maag rahi hain aur father ke dost se bhi phone karke 2 baar bola lakin larki se puchne per larki ne mana kar diya. Mene larki ko ghar ane ke liye bol rahe thaa lakin larki kahna tha ki hum ammi ke sath nhi rahege hume alag laker rakho aur is baat ko hum raazi nhi thain July 2013 me humne bola ki hum tumhe Talaq dete hain. Us doran hamara bacha uske pait me tha. Aur hamari baat daily hoti rahi hou us doran hum ne ruzu bhi kar liya. Phir khuch dino baad pata chala ki bacha bhi miscarriage hou gaya pata nhi houa hain ya karaya hain allah bahtar janta hian larki ne ya uske ghar walo ne bahut dino baad batyaa .Us ke baad bhi hamari batein hoti rahi daily date 30-07-2013 ko larki ke ghar walo ne job ke liye larki ko delhi bhej diya hamara ghar nhi bheja aur na hi masle ka hal kara phir hum ne larki ko bahut galiya di aur uske ghar walo ko bhi kyo ki hamare ghar nhi bheja aur job karne ke liye bhej diya. Aur phir 2-august-2013 ko ek sms bhi kar diya ki idat ka din mubarak hou,lakin wo idat ,me nhi bethi thi aur phir hamare sath baat chit bhi hoti rahi daily doni ki raza bandi se aur hum 2-august ko bhi mile. Aur August me hi humne bola ki hum blaack dete hain hum ne blaak world is niyat se bola ki wo ghar aa jai phir hum 10-August-2013 ko mile larki ne bhulaya tha hum mile aur ghume phire bhi aur daily batein bhi hoti rahi daily. Aur ye sari batein sirf phone per hoi aur koi gawah bhi na tha to 24-august ko larki ke ghar walo ne ye baat boli ki larki ne Talak suna hain is se pahle larki ya larki ke ghar walo ne khabhi bhi is baat ka zikar nhi kara tha hadis ke hisab se wo hamare nikah me hain ya nahi biwi ka kahna hain ki June aur August me talak teen martaba suna hain aur humara kahana hain ki e june me hi hum ne talak bola tha aur us doran ruzu bhi kar liya aur august me hum ne blaak world bola hain sirf aur wo bhi is niyat se ki wo ghar aa jai . Regards Iqbal khan Mail id -khaniqbal46@gmail.com
Answer :

In the name of Allah,

aap ne jo tafseel likhi hai, us ke mutabiq aap ne sirf derane aur dhamkane ke liye Talaq se milta julta word "Black" use kiya hai, jis se aap ka irada Talaq ka nahi tha, aisi surat me Talaq waqe nahi hogi, zahir hai ke aap ki wife se use phone par "Talaq" hi samjha hoga, lekin aap ne aisa kuch nahi kaha hai aur niyat bhi aisi nahi hai, is liye ye talaq nahi hogi, agar koi waazeh lafzon me Talaq nahi deta hai to phir niyat zaruri hoti hai, aap chunke educated hain aur Talaq ke word se bakhubi waqif hain, is liye aap ki bat ka Aitebar hoga. and Allah knows Best.

 

(Mufti Aijaz Arshad Qasmi)

New Delhi, Cell: 9910215431

 
Country : India, Date : 26-08-2013
Asked Question : assalamoaleykum.....janab mera name rizwana he or meri sadi hui tab muje or meri ghar valo ko mera shohar pehle se sadi suda he ye bat malum nhi thi or sadi k 10 mahine k bad malum hua k mera shohar sadi suda he or ab mera shohar muje nhi rakhna chahte...to muje kya hak mil sakte he??? or kya agar mera shohar ab talak dete he to kya talak bhi ho jayega???? me agar un k sath renna chau to kya muje barabar k hak mil sakta he???? ek admine apne bare juti umar or vo khud kuvara he esa bata kar ek kuvari ladki se sadi karli kya juth pe bani sadi qran or hadis sarif ke hasab se jayaj he ya nhi...... sadi karne se pehle ladki ko batana jaruri nhi k vo jis isnan se nikhah kar rahi he vo pehle se sadi suda he or vo dusari biwi banne vali he esa hakk quran or hadis sarif ladki ko deti he(apne hone vale shohar k bare me sab kuch janne k hak rakhati he) ----
Answer :

Bismillah,

dhoka dekar aur kisi cheez ko makhfi rakh kar bhi agar koi Nikah karta hai to Nikah valid samjha jayega, lekin aisi surat me ladki ko Qazi ke yahan shikayat darj kar ke Faskh e Nikah ka haq hasil hoga. aap ne jo surat likhi hai, us me aap ke sath aap ke shauhar froud kar rahe hain, us ne pahle dhoka dekar shadi ki aur ab aap ko rakhna bhi nahi chahte hian, ye unki mujremana harkat hai jo ke na qabile mafi jurm hai, is silsile me aap Mulk ki adalat se ruju kar ke Insaf Talab kar sakti hai, aap ko Insha Allah zarur Insaf milega. aap ke shauhar ne pahle apni shadi shuda life ko chhupaya, phir aap se Nikah kar ke apni bhook mitaye aur ab barabar ka haq dene ke bajaye divorce ki bat karte hain, jis Islam me kisi bhi taur par hausla afzayi nahi ki jasakti.....

 

Mufti Aijaz Arshad Qasmi,

New Delhi

Cell:  09910215431

 
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